A long distance relationship is a hard one to make-work but with care and effort, they CAN work.  I have seen it happen with my own eyes. I have several friends that met their spouse in romance chat rooms. They lived great distances apart but made the relationship work by keeping in constant communication. Communication is key here.

 It’s important to take time to contact each other every day. You can e-mail, talk on the phone, or use an instant messenger program. Tell each other about the small everyday things in your lives will help to make you feel closer and a part of each other’s lives. E-mail can become the modern version of love letters that you grandmother still has stored away except much fast than the old snail mail and more convenient.  No Need for a stamp just press send and they have got mail!!How about an instant message? There are several instant messenger programs that make keeping in close contact easy and convenient. Yahoo ,AOL, and MSN, to name a few. Most have web cam service. You can be face to face though thousands of miles away in an instance.  Using these options can help bond you as a couple  through daily contact.

Take the step to visit each other and make that time special. Tell your friends and family that you and your sweetheart want to spend this time alone. Try to make sure you have nothing else to do but spend time with each other and spend it wisely.  If you do not put in the effort to see each other you will drift apart no matter how much you love each other. A Relationship needs physical contact in order to stay strong and keep it together.

 Trust is important in a long distance relationship. Try not to panic and worry every time you call and don’t get an answer..  do not assume just because your sweetie went out with friends that he is cheating on you. Trust is the key here. You can not keep someone chained to a phone or computer waiting for you but as long as they are making the effort to stay in contact with you, relax.

With work and a little effort a long distance relationship can work well. There’s something very romantic about people that are so far apart yet being devoted to each other. Just remember to take the time to stay in daily contact and it could blossom into something that can last a lifetime.

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